What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?
Last Updated: 17.06.2025 14:18
91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?
73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?
92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?
12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?
80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊
How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?
Why do you think Islam oppresses women when Christianity clearly does it more?
14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?
7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
Does the thought excite you? Care to share?
If freedom of speech is absolute, how come it's not applied for private spaces and for the Internet?
26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?
Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?
27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?
When was the first time you suck on a penis?
22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?
14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?
10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?
Why are there so many girls and not enough boys to follow?
46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?
50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?
Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan
What is the one thing you don't understand that others do?
24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)
If you win, what will you make them do?
49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?
Why do people stop working towards achieving their dreams?
Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?
Have you ever? Care to Share?
Please share Did you stop?
Do happily married husbands cheat?
27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.
4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?
56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?
*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***
5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?
Why do some guys treat girls so badly?
* Give a rating for each one (0-100)
68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?
7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?
17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?
33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?
74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?
What is the sum of X+XX+XXX+XXXX?
Any that are a turn off?
8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.
61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?
Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?
9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?
41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?
12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?
38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?
What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?
6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?
75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?
I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?
5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?
(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?
1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?
If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?
11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?
If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?
That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!
64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?
Do you watch it? What is your favorite?
20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?
If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)
What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?
3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?
53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?
Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?
Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?
These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…
16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?
What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/
18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?
Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?
11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?
Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?
6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?
44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?
32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?
Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…
15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?
6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?
21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand
You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.
29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?
43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?
83~ How do you feel about Porn?
22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?
2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?
2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.
58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?
Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced
Family Relation Age Play
Master/Slave Boss/Maid
9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?
85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?
8- What are your thoughts on politics?
72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?
14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?
79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?
18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?
Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?
4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)
28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?
11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?
70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?
45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)
45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?
20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?
37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?
Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?
50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?
Nothing too Serious
18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?
51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?
19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?
16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?
47~ What would be your dream job and why?
*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***
25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?
55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
If yes, what?
1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)
7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?
17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?
29- How superstitious are you?
2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?
1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?
Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant
14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?
3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)
69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?
41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.
32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?
4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)
Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…
13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?
35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
What was the longest? What was the shortest?
If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?
Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts
6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?
24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?
49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?
59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?
36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?
4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?
Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?
Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client
What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?
9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?
44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?
*** Random Questions ***
Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.
12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?
30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?
Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?
Model/Photographer Police/Criminal
13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?
34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?
93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…
90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?
48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?
42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?
How old are you? Male or Female?
5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?
(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)
Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?
78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?
40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?
*** Questions About Me ***
52~ What are your hobbies?
42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?
What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?
57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?
23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?
* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?
43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?
77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?
8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?
53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?
76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?
3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?
8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?
84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?
36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?
46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?
How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)
1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?
39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?
Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager
*** Deal Breaker Questions ***
Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…
85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,
52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?
20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?
65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?
15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?
3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?
10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.
15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?
13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?
Do you think this brought you closer together?
Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?
A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…
How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?
How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me
If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.
Any that are a turn off?
How many times do you think you have “made love”?
What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.
33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?
17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?
Take the short quiz here @ Discover Your Love Language® - The 5 Love Languages®
60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?
67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?
30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?
87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?
What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?
48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?
89~ Do you like taking showers together?
Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?
62~ Have you used adult toys?
11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?
63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?
28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?
71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?
Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?
7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?
Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?
10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?
5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?
10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?
54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?
40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?
What is your favorite position? Why?
66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?
9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?
9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?
Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?
7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?
23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)
19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?
22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?
5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?
33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?
14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?
Would you read them together?
31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?
37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?
51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?
Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?
21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?
31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)
Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?
21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?
2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?
1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?
16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?
92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?
The Ice Breaker Questions
26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?
39~ What are your love languages?
25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)
38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?
82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?
11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?
47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)
34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?
13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?